How to Get the Love Back into your (Love) Life
By Mick Sawtell
Whether we're single or in a relationship, we may be feeling alone, wondering, “Where did the Love go?” It didn’t ‘go’ anywhere. Disappointments gradually close our heart until we can't feel the love anymore. The focus ends up on everything but the love, leaving us closed and avoiding intimacy.
When we fell in love, we were open and honest. We now need to focus on the heart again and not just the problems. A great way to get that loving energy flowing again is with a Tantric Massage.
A relationship is not meant to be smooth all the time – it’s actually a mirror showing us where we're at emotionally. Instead of trying to blame and change our partner, we can recognise that these emotions usually spring from our own past. Healing these personal issues & then loving ourselves is essential before we can truly love another.
There is no way that Love can flow in a dishonest environment –The heart won't let it! Conscious, emotional honesty is essential.
Try slowing down during Love-Making, feel into your own and your partner's heart, take the focus away from orgasm and feel the beautiful loving connection.
Men, the most powerful wisdom on how to love your partner more is to practice the ancient art of non-ejaculation!
Women, I'm sure you know how intense a man's love is for you as he approaches orgasm, yet a few moments later he barely wants to talk. While you're still in that precious openness…help him to learn how to stay with the love by not ejacualting. He will still adore you even the next morning!