I was just looking at my site and i saw how much of it appears to be focused on sexual issues ... and i was wondering does this give a wrong impression of Tantra.
Yes Tantra is surely the best place to go if you do have an orgasm or intimacy issue BUT in actual fact so much of the healing that happens in my sessions is not really just about sex.
Many people are finding that the TantraTLC massage and counseling has more to do with opening up to a feeling of the heart than just to the feeling of sexual energy.
Sure the massage will hopefully allow the senses to feel their beautiful innocent pleasure and flow more freely but , through the breathing techniques that i share, the feeling becomes very heart focused and this is really where the healing happens.
Yesterday i received a text from a client saying .....
'Thankyou for showing me what is possible '
Yes she had just experienced deeper more fulfilling orgasms than usual but i think equally exciting for her ( and for me ) was the gorgeous feeling of bliss that we shared at the end of our time together ... such a feeling of the heart having been touched ....Two human beings opening up , in complete trust, feeling completely safe within the agreed boundaries discovering such a blissful heartfelt feeling that is very rarely found in normal life ...! ..
and she said clearly ..' I want more of this in my life ! '
This feeling of bliss just has to be SO good for us ..SO good for the body -
( the exact opposite of stress ...! ) SO good for the heart /the soul and SO good for our whole perspective on life....
Having such a beautiful experience gives us a feeling of optimism and openness to loving life again more fully...Fully aware that life is a gift and if i approach it with this much love openness and appreciation surely anything can happen ....?
YES your dreams can come true ..and they should !
We can spend a lot of time and energy trying to make stuff happen in our lives ...not really sure of what we actually really want...possibly more sure of what we don't want !
i have seen many times that as the Tantric journey unfolds and we become more used to feeling the depth , openness and appreciation that happens in a session - then we start to see more clearly that we really want manifest that same feeling in our daily life...
and we get more clear -in more detail - of what we really want in our life -
Stay connected to your heart - Breathe deep - and then the fulfillment that you were struggling to achieve gradually starts happening gracefully and without effort
its MAGIC !
And it happens :))